Salsa Outings Afterparty Thoughts
May 21, 2009
As I was returning home from Plaza Flamingo outing by Toronto Salsa Passion, I was feeling the pleasant tiredness that comes from knowing you just did something that was good for you – moved, shook, rolled, and otherwise exercised for several hours in a row. But besides that, I was feeling joy, warmth and a sense of belonging. It is hard to rationally explain why a night out at a Latin club results in this kind of feeling, but I will try.
The night kicked off with lessons in salsa and merengue, which gave the guests an opportunity to meet each other, get in the dance mood and relax. Practice and free dancing to fiery rhythms followed.
One of the things I like about going to a Latin club is that people come there to actually dance. That is, as opposed to getting drunk, stoned or otherwise intoxicated and spending some “quality†time hugging bathroom installations. Not to say people don’t drink at all in a Latin club, but there is no need to overdo it in an attempt to have fun, as everyone is having so much fun already. The joy of motion, the intoxication of the rhythm, the haze of speed – all these things make it unnecessary to resort to additional doping.
Another thing I like about the Latin clubs is how easy it is to meet new people there. No stupid pick-up lines are required, no need to be afraid of embarrassing yourself when trying to approach someone you don’t know. It suffices to come up to the guy/girl you’ve laid your eye on and extend your hand. Maybe I haven’t been going to Latin clubs for too long, but I am yet to see a case of a refusal.
Finally, on the sense of belonging. That comes from feeling you are a part of a group, sort of a special “nationâ€, who have the same interest – that in Latin dancing, the same goal – that of learning and improving one’s skills, same culture – that of liberation and passion, and same language – that of salsa, merengue, and bachata.
Next time there is an outing to a Latin club, come with us and see for yourself!